Swingers are people in relationships who interchange sexual partners either at parties, events, or meetup encounters facilitated online or outings.
Polyamory is people in relationships who bring in a third of a particular gender to become a part of that relationship on a consistent basis, often to live in or keep long term.
The only similarities are that the couples all have rules of engagement as to the types of people they will court, the genders, the sexual activities allowed, whether both members must be present at all times or not, whether both parties get to seek partners outside of the relationship or not, the length of time and amounts of encounters they are comfortable with, so on and so forth.
For example, a couple may agree that they will only bring in females that they must both share, or that the male is the only one that gets to have women he will rotate time with, or even Polyandrous situations where the female gets to have several men that never co-mingle; or do. The most important being that each partner gets to communicate their desires, expectations and limitations.
Through Reflection of Self, Honesty and Compersion, each partner gets to enjoy a relationship full of fun, passion, comfort, intimacy, friendship, sister and brotherhood. Children are co-parented and the maturity levels of all able to sustain these Polyfidelitous Situationships longterm is higher, wiser and more stable than others continually searching, failing and abandoning persons they once claimed to love or made promises to.
Being able to smile and truly feel joy watching someone else giving love to the person you love is Step 1 to a successful Multi love situationship.
This is not a place for hate or judgement. This is a place for learning, sharing experiences, questions and growing. Feel free to give advice and get advice, any religious persons should remember that the Bible has many many instances of Polygamy as do other Religious texts, so please forego hypocritical commentary. Thank You. Jess
