"Every morning at 6:30 A.M I wake up to get ready for work. Shower, shave, have a healthy breakfast, wake my wife and kids, kiss them goodbye then drive to work. It's Thursday and I am anxious all day, carefully going about my routine trying very hard to focus as I hold the fate of people's lives in my hands because I'm a Judge, but every Thursday at Four; I am a slave.
I take off my robe hang it up neatly, drive to a motel in a neighborhood my wife would never go and meet up with an intelligent, erotic, thrilling, sadistic woman I never have any type of sex with. She orders me around, puts my body through consensual pain and for once I get to relinquish control; and it feels exhilirating."
This is a part of himself he can only accurately explain to someone else who shares some dark need that society would frown down upon. We don't injure anyone and it provides a Psychological release for Sadists, Masochists and Type A "Control Freaks" who would otherwise explode in some negative emotional manner in regular everyday society. With Safe Words and Limits, BDSM & Fetish Play Statistically Can Reduce The Number Of Violent Crimes In This World. Submissive people learn to take control and negotiate the activities they will or won't engage in, and not succumb to one sided abusive relationships which victimize them until they break or worse.
As is life; nothing is 100% guaranteed or predictable, but speaking on behalf of myself, it absolutely reduces much of the Psychological Stressors that interfere in my life and upset my emotional balance.
This is a space to share your personal experiences, ask respectful questions and explore your own desires you may be unable to share anyplace else. Please do not get too graphic or explicit, no uploading nudity or vulgar language, No harassment or threatening of others. Thank you. Jess
